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Others　Are　Only　Mirrors　of　You

Anonymous

The　first　time　you　meet　someone；　in　the　first　moment　you　form　an　impression　in　your　mind　of　that　person。　Your　reactions　to　other　people；　however；　are　really　just　barometers　for　how　you　perceive　yourself。　Your　reactions　to　others　say　more　about　you　than　they　do　about　others。　You　cannot　really　love　or　hate　something　about　another　person　unless　it　reflects　something　you　love　or　hate　about　yourself。　We　are　usually　drawn　to　those　who　are　most　like　us　and　tend　to　dislike　those　who　display　those　aspects　of　ourselves　that　we　dislike。

Therefore；　you　can　allow　others　to　be　the　mirror　to　illuminate　more　clearly　your　own　feelings　of　self…worth。　Conversely；　you　can　view　the　people　you　judge　negatively　as　mirrors　to　show　you　what　you　are　not　accepting　about　yourself。

To　coexist　peacefully　with　others；　you　will　need　to　learn　tolerance。　A　big　challenge　is　to　shift　your　perspective　radically　from　judgment　of　other　to　a　lifelong　exploration　of　yourself。　Your　task　is　to　assess　all　the　decisions；　judgments　you　make　onto　others　and　to　begin　to　view　them　as　clues　to　how　you　can　heal　yourself　and　bee　whole。

I　recently　had　a　business　lunch　with　a　man　who　displayed　objectionable　table　manners。　My　first　reaction　was　to　judge　him　as　offensive　and　his　table　manners　as　disgusting。　When　I　noticed　that　I　was　judging　him；　I　stopped　and　asked　myself　what　I　was　feeling。　I　discovered　that　I　was