The only thing that is real is that we have six roots within us。 Three roots of good and three roots of evil。 The latter are greed; hate and delusion; but we also have their opposites: generosity3; loving…kindness and wisdom。 Take an interest in this matter。 If one investigates this and doesn’t get anxious about it; then one can easily accept these six roots in everybody。 No difficulty at all; when one has seen them in oneself。 They are the underlying roots of everyone’s behavior。 Then we can look at ourselves a little more realistically; namely not blaming ourselves for the unwholesome roots; not patting ourselves on the back for the wholesome ones; but rather accepting their existence within us。 We can also accept others more clear…sightedly and have a much easier time relating to them。
We will not suffer from disappointments and we won’t blame; because we won’t live in a world where only black or white exists; either the three roots of unwholesomeness or their opposites。 Such a world doesn’t exist anywhere; and the only person to be like that is an Arahant。 It’s largely a matter of degree in everyone else。 These degrees of good and evil are so finely tuned; there’s so little difference within the degrees in each one of us that it really doesn’t matter。 Everybody has the same job to do; to cultivate the wholesome tendencies and uproot the unwholesome ones。
Apparently we’re all very different。 That too is an illusion。 We’re all having the same problems and